Associate Professor Department of Philosophy and Science, School of Humanities, Southeast University Southeast University 2 Si pai lou, Xuanwu District, Nanjing, P.R. China, 210096. My research focuses on the ongoing destruction to the Chinese family - the eroded internal ethical relationship and the deconstruction of external ethical ecosystem -as a “holistic individual” in the tremendous social changes. And, then I argue that the state and its government should provide ethical support according to its obligation based on Hegel's theory of the dialectical relationship between state and family ethics.